I Am a Girl, I Can Do It” – My True Story | Desi Blogger Life

🌸I Am a Girl, I Can Do It” – My True Story | Desi Blogger Life

I Am a Girl, I Can Do It” – My True Story | Desi Blogger Life

I come from a traditional Desi Pathan family where girls are expected to live within certain boundaries.
When I completed my 12th grade (ICS), I dreamed of going to university.
But my family said:

“University environments aren’t good. Girls go astray.”

To them, university meant just friendships and freedom — they couldn’t see that a girl might dream of standing on her own feet.


🖥 Just an Old PC and a Lot of Faith

I didn’t even have a mobile phone.
All I had was a basic old desktop PC — slow, always hanging — but still, it was my only companion.
I watched online earning videos on it and tried to implement everything practically.
No one supported me.
I had only Allah and my own determination.


🛍 The Shopify Trap

One day I saw a video on YouTube:

“Create a Shopify store for free and earn lakhs!”

So I gave it a try. But it came with just a 7-day trial. After that, you had to buy a paid plan — and I didn’t even have the money.
They only showed the basic stuff — no proper research, no backend guidance.
And if you wanted to learn more, they said:

“Buy my course.”

Every creator was just trying to earn from referrals

“Join from my link…”

But no one was telling the truth.
I started to feel like the entire online earning world was full of fraud.


😔 Depression and Loneliness

I was so emotionally broken, I would cry every night.
I used to ask myself:

“Is the only reason I can’t succeed because I’m a girl?”
“If I were a boy, would this all be easier?”

Even my friends left me — busy with their university lives.
I was completely alone.
Only Allah was there to hear me.
I prayed every day:

“Ya Allah, give me a chance to become something too.”


🎥 One Video That Changed Everything

After all that struggle, one day I found a video that opened my eyes.
The channel was: Sadam Qasim.

That video shared:

  • The real steps to start a blog
  • Keyword research and niche selection
  • How much investment is needed
  • What tools and plugins to use
  • Google AdSense policies

And most importantly:

“If you want to work online, you need both investment and knowledge.”


💰 But Where Would I Get the Money?

I didn’t even have enough money to buy hosting.
My family didn’t support me.
They said:

“It’s all fraud. Let it go.”
“You’re a girl. You won’t be able to do it.”

But I didn’t give up.
I saved my pocket money — collecting just 50 rupees a day.
I kept researching — kept looking for the right niche and keywords.

Finally, I had saved enough to buy hosting.
I made the payment using my brother’s EasyPaisa account.
And that day…

My first website went live! 😭❤️


🎯 Today’s Mission

Now, my mission is to monetize my site —
And tell people the real truth:

Online earning is hard, but it’s not impossible.

I want to prove every single person wrong who once told me:

“You can’t do it.”


🗣 What Do You Think?

Have you ever gone through something like this?
Did you ever feel stuck at some point in life?
Have you ever felt like you were all alone?

Please comment or message me.
I want Desi Blogger Life to be more than just my story —

I want it to become our voice. 🤝💪

Part 2 coming soon…

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